How to be more romantic

  Women feel special, just like anybody does, if they think someone has done some preparation just for them. Cooking a meal, wrapping a little present, or hand-making a card for her will all make her feel like you are sitting around thinking of ways to delight her.

  The key here is to do things that give the appearance that you are thinking of her. When you do things to make her feel special and appreciated it will increase her desire to put out for you.

The next time you really want to surprise your husband/wife as they come home, go into the garage and tie a three foot string onto the bottom handle of the garage door. On the other end of the string attach a card or lightweight gift. When they hit the opener, the card will magically rise from the floor to greet them as they arrive.If you're dead set on taking your date to a restaurant, get courageous and creative, and try something new. Do a little research (online or among friends first-hand recommendations tend to be the most reliable) and find a unique little place off the beaten path. A tiny mom-and-pop Italian restaurant, or a hole-in-the-wall exotic food spot. These kinds of places tend to be much more budget-friendly than bigger, more popular restaurants, and they have infinitely more character. Plus, given the high level of competition in the food industry, these places have to be pretty good in order to survive, so the food is usually top-notch.

Of course, you can always just stay home. This option doesn't have to be boring far from it! Instead of splurging at a restaurant, put extra effort into preparing a special dinner yourself. For even more romance, do it together. Cooking is a great bonding experience, and the preparation itself can be one of the best parts of the date.

1. Create the time for love and romance in your relationship. Love making can be put on the back burner too easily as time slips away from you. Couples like this intend to get to it when life calms down. Like most people, you have to make the time in your life for what's important to you. If intimate time together is important, create the time for it. If being spontaneous doesn't work out, block out time for a "love date" and don't allow other things to get in the way.

2. If you don't feel like making love, honestly communicate with your partner and yourself. This may sound simple, but sometimes it isn't. Physical ailments-real or imagined-are allowed get in the way of intimacy. There are also times when you are just too tired and love making is not on your mind. Whatever it is, let your partner know honestly and then make a "date" for a time when you know you'll feel better or have more time to connect with each other. If you are really feeling disconnection from your partner, don't use the old "I have a headache" excuse. Honestly facing the issue with your partner can help you feel better.

3. Focus on each other-let go of concerns about the kids or work. Wipe extraneous thoughts, worries and fears from your mind when you come together for love making. If this isn't possible, let your partner know you need to clear your head. Then go take a walk or do something that will help. You may also need to deal with a particular issue or problem with your partner. Take care of that first, then focus on the love you have for each other.

 

  Drink in a sunset or sunrise. In our town, we have a bike path by the river and it's a perfect place to watch the gorgeous sunsets that are happening. The other evening, Susie just stopped and breathed in the beauty of the sky colors. There was even a rainbow! Enjoy this vision by yourself or with a loved one or friend.

When we are feeling good, open and expanded, we are loving ourselves and each other more deeply. We feel a deeper connection with each other, we are more understanding and not as judgmental, and we have more fun. Whether you resonate with any of our ideas or not, take this opportunity to open and expand and try some things that you might not normally do. If you do, we're sure that your life will be a richer experience and your relationships will improve.

She tells you that you just don't understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more "little things."

It's not the big things that make her happy; it's paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful. She doesn't necessarily need lavish gifts -- she needs to know you're thinking about her.

Here are some ideas to get you started doing these "little things" she really wants:

 

  1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.

2. Make her dinner one night. Don't ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.

3. Light a candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the glaring lights of the television and other things.

4. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her "I miss your smile from this morning" or "Last night was amazing!" or "The conversation we had last night was great."

5. Send an eCard in the middle of the day... something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.

6. If she's going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.

7. Let her have control of the remote control. Don't monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.

8. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner.

9. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don't just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.

10. If you work out together, enjoy it with her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.

11. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back, and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!

12. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don't just say you'll give her a massage...do it!

13. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her, "We're going out tonight honey." You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It's taking the initiative that's important.

14. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.

15. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don't wait for her to call you.

 

  It can be simple to keep her satisfied. It's not necessarily about what you give her financially or what gifts you give her. That's a cop out. It's the little things. The guy who makes the biggest mistake is the one who ignores their significant other then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn't make up for it at all.

But more than you do now, make a point to watch, participate in, or ask about each other's outside activities. She'll be thrilled that he's risking his hamstrings and dignity to experience what downward dog is all about; he'll be ego-stroked when she's sitting on the sidelines as he hits disc pay dirt. Independence is good, interdependence is better.

Combine romance with eroticism. You feel great when he sends you flowers, so why not return the favour? Try sending a bottle of expensive vintage champagne, red wine or port. Now turn that loving gesture into a sexy one. Enclose a note explaining in great detail exactly what he did to deserve such luxurious spoils.

Be unpredictable. You're not going to surprise him if you suggest having sex on a Saturday night as you both climb into bed. But you will catch him unawares if you cuddle him from behind when he's cleaning the car, washing up or reading a book.

 

  *Make the move. If your partner is always the one to initiate sex, the message you're sending is: I do it to please you, not because I want to. This leaves both of you feeling cheated. The person initiating sex feels sexier because they're taking control and giving themselves power. Be the boss by taking the lead role during lovemaking as well.

Romance: Make time for each other. Enjoy a meal out or buy each other presents.

Take time to nurture each other and make sex exciting by changing which room you have sex in.

*Lie a little. He's away on business? The next time he calls you late at night, skip the usual stuff and tell him, in intimate detail, what you're wearing. Move on to what you're going to do to him when you get your hands on him. The juicier the better.

*Try one new thing each fortnight. Start off simple. Have a bath together, give each other a foot massage, take off her top or his shirt without using your hands. Then move into things like making love to them with their hands tied behind their back and masturbating in front of each other.

*If you're excited, show it. The biggest turn-on of all is seeing how much you're exciting your partner. If he's driving you wild, show him better still, say so.

  Most guys make one of two main mistakes when trying to be "romantic":

1) They try to use romance to create attraction.

2) They use too much romance, thinking that more must be better.

Let me ask you this... What does romance mean to you?

I'm serious. Think about it for a minute.

Does romance mean gifts and flower?

Does it mean fancy dinners? Does it mean candles and soft music?Many of us think that exciting, passionate lovemaking comes naturally, and doesn't have to be developed. But in reality, the skills of prolonged, enjoyable lovemaking are learned - either through years of practice (and trial and error), through personal guidanceTake her in your arms and dance with her - in the kitchen, the parking lot - anywhere.

 

  Always check to see if the hotel offers special romance packages. These can range from having wine or champagne in your room to trails of rose petals and dinner packages. The simple act of holding hands can also add excitement back into a relationship. This intimate gesture conveys a sense of security but it also lets your partner know that you want to be close to them at all times.

 

 

  Some men take their dates to an adventurous place. They go
to a few local destinations or historical places within the
area. They go around these places whilst having so much to
see and many things to talk about. These are times when you
don’t need a funny line to break the silence.

Roughly a quarter of couples who meet at work end up in long-term committed relationships.Old-fashioned or not, the truth is that office dating is fairly common.Experts believe that women feel sexier than ever post an invigourating exercise session and often experience a fully loaded sexual rendezvous. So start by giving your body the much needed attention. Even something as simple as a brisk walk covering two miles a day can reduce men's risk of impotence.

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So, if you've not been working out since the past few years, get started now! Instead of the regular gym-ing, go for workout options that are not only exciting, but also keep the two of you together. Some interesting couple work-out options include aqua aerobics (think romance combined with fitness), couple yoga, swimming lessons, salsa classes and tango sessions to name a few.

 

  A good option for couples other than jogging aimlessly can be training for a marathon or learning a new a sport together. An assisted work out with your partner helps you both to spend quality time together and consequently strengthens your bonding. Besides, looking good and losing weight does miracles for an individual's self confidence making them more uninhibited during sex and ready to experiment more.

Girls always want that her kiss should be perfect. Many times girls are feeling embarrassment at the time of kissing a boy. Therefore some times girls refuse to kiss the boy at last situation. By doing this some time they will create a gap in their relationship. The best way to make your kiss should perfect and memorable. Over here few kissing tips are mention for the girls. By follow these simple tips you can create a magical moment.

You have to sure that whoever does the kissing first, that you never rush the kiss. You have to be sure to take a long and deep breath before you get started.

  You have to sure that at the time of kissing no interruptions should be there and do not be feel embarrassment at the time of kissing.

You have to sure that you both have complete privacy at the time of kissing, to enjoy the moment for as long as you both like.

Do not expect that your first kissing attempt to be perfect, to go smoothly or be hopelessly romantic at that time.

5. The most important thing, make sure that you have brushed your teeth properly and recently and do not have awful and bad smell from your mouth.

If you want that this kissing situation will always become memorable for you and your partner then you both have to be completely sober at that situation.

The secret to being a great kisser is to keep it simple and sexy. Forget about impressing her with that Casanovian kiss. Instead, indulge yourself in a simple, sexy and intimate kiss. Rid your mind of any kissing performance thoughts, and instead, realize that she's opening the door to her soul and body. Enjoy the moment! You could ask him/her to kiss you, but that takes a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading his mind. Here are some ways. He could have worked on the science project with someone else, but he asked you. He could have called somebody else to chat about the Math assignment, but he called you. He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out with you.

the old saying about absence making the heart grow fonder is true—to a certain degree. If you and your sweetheart share true romance, then a long distance relationship shouldn’t pose any threat to your future happiness (as long as the absence isn’t too extensive). If, on the other hand, you and your lover lack romance and trust in your relationship, you may want to focus on building a healthier relationship before it’s time for you to hit the road.

The ever slight whiff of a passing gardenia not enough to to smell over and over, that fleeting moment when you smell it and wonder where it came from, but you turn all around an the smell disappears, only to sneak back when you don't look for it or expect it. Jewelry is always a good choice for you big spenders, but candles, pajamas, or a nice perfume also do nicely. For those of you focused less on the material things you could even write a poem or cook a romantic dinner for two at home

Remember that things will occasionally go wrong. Your kids will get dirty and make noise. You will forget to buy batteries, thaw the turkey, or take the cookies out of the oven. Planes will be delayed, relatives will get tied up with other responsibilities, and dogs will jump on your favorite party dress with muddy paws.